I know, I know…some of you might think why another relationship topic posted by me again! You guys must be thinking that I am anti-relationship. (I am not really!) It just happened to freinds around me, i thought I will raise it here to get a few opinion.
I met up with three of my girl friends today. They all have relationship problems/dilemmas. They seek for my advice. (god knows why
??!!) I didn’t know how to respond to them, really. :S
Okay, let’s start with Miss A, she has been with her bf for 3 months, her bf …(how should i put it…) is different. He is an IT engineer and my friend works in the hotel as a guest relation officer. This bf of hers keeps telling her that her job is worthless. And he warns her everytime that she should not dispose her occupation to his friends if she bumped into them. He said that he is ashame of her occupation. (What is wrong with being GRO? If i were her i would stick my middle finger at him and ask him to f off!!!)
Ahem! Back to my friend. The most ridiculous thing is that she obeys him and keeps quiet about his behaviour towards her job! Come on, i honestly do not see any problems or whatsoever. Oh, they rarely go out on a date because this so called bf of her thinks it is cheaper to stay home, cook at home, and rent movie to watch at home. So they rarely go out at all. Grrr… oH! He even aked her to put on make up because she looks ugly!
Miss B, she has been with her bf for a few years now. They are talking about marriage. Now, she knows very well that he is not the one that she wants as a husband but she is reluctant to let go and find another one. Why? she thinks she doesn’t have time and maybe no luck to find another one. PLUS she cannot handle the loneliness, she thinks that if she broke up with him she would be left alone with no friends. Sigh… ( I am holding this in…!!! Patient)
Miss C, she has just broken up with her younger bf yesterday. (7 years younger) They were together for 6 momths. The reason was that she wants marriage and children and he doesn’t wnt it because he is too young. Miss C thinks marriage is the end of the story where two people live happily ever after. So when she found out that he couldnt give her that she broke up with him. and trust me, she will find another guy with the same aim --> get maried and have kids and live happily ever after!
Now, tell mw what is wrong with these people?! Sigh…I am tired! :? :? :?